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In the Human Factor, we profile survivors who have overcome the odds. Confronting a life obstacle -- injury, illness or other hardship -- they tapped their inner strength and found resilience they didn't know they possessed. This week we introduce you to DJ Robbie Wilde, who literally has to feel the music he spins; he's been deaf since he was 7.
(CNN) -- My early childhood was a bit of a trip. I was born in the United Kingdom, then moved to Portugal, Venezuela and eventually New Jersey.
When I was about 7, I had
a series of severe ear infections. At the time, my family had no money,
and we didn't have insurance, so there was no option to take care of
it. I ended up losing full hearing in my right ear and 80% hearing in my
left.
When I began attending
public school, I didn't understand how the severity of my hearing loss
would affect me; neither did my parents or my teachers. There were many
issues when it came to grades due to miscommunication between the
teachers and me. They often thought I was ignoring them.
Eventually, when I was
11, my parents started to pick up on it, which led to a doctor visit. My
mother and I were told that I had significant hearing loss and that the
hearing I had left was not guaranteed to stay.
My mother had a hard time
dealing with the news at first. It was one more obstacle that we were
going to have to deal with as a family, and she knew it was bound to
cause a hard time for me at school.
When it came time to
decide whether to go to a school for the deaf or continue in public
school, I made the choice to stay where I was. My mother was a bit
uncomfortable with the situation, but my fear of being labeled as
different played a big part in my decision.
I also decided I was just going to keep my hearing loss to myself.
Eventually my friends
figured it out. It didn't really change anything between us, but from
time to time, some other kids would make fun of me.
One day in middle school a
kid started making fun of me and mocked his own stereotypical idea of
what a deaf person would speak like. One of my good friends, Chad
Foster, stopped me from thinking or doing anything negative and told me
it wasn't worth it. He said there will always be ignorant people like
that in life, and I just have to brush it off -- to be me and that's all
that mattered. He also told me he had my back.
But I still had trouble
looking at school the same way. That incident brought reality into my
life at an early age, so I kept to myself with my close friends.
My career as a DJ began
in college. My parents owned a restaurant, and my father gave me the
opportunity to DJ a party one night. I immediately fell in love with the
turntables and began to DJ more and more. From there I started DJ'ing
at clubs in the tri-state area, from New Jersey to New York to
Connecticut, and eventually also in Atlanta and Chicago.
I started to get a
following in those states, even as I continued to attend Kean University
to get my bachelor's degree in biology. Then I had to drop out of
college my junior year due to financial trouble in a bad economy.
However, I stuck with my
passion of spinning music, and after nearly a decade, I was granted a
great opportunity. Hewlett-Packard took notice of what I was doing and
what my movement stood for. We shot and aired a global commercial, which
began a positive snowball effect for my career.
Doctors tell me there is
a procedure that could restore my hearing. One day, when I have the
time and money to get my hearing fixed, I probably will have the
procedure done. But right now, I need to be on the forefront with my
team, fighting for the issues in society that are too often overlooked. I
intend to do so through my career in music and philanthropy.
Plus, there are just some things in life better off not being heard.
When it comes down to
it, life's not about all the small negative things you encounter. It's
about being yourself and doing what you love to be happy. If you love
something so much and have great passion for it, then just go for it. My
team and I like to use the expression "Why not ... ?"
Just ask yourself, why not?
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"Why not?"--Robbie Wilde
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