AN INSPIRATIONAL STORY
So one of the things we with Moebius, or those with other physical differences, deal with daily is that we are _different_--we look a little bit different, we sound a little bit different, and sometimes it's no fun to stick out, to deal with the stares or a little added attention, etc.  But so often in life we see--if you stay focused, be confident, know what you can do, and focus on going out there and doing it, you can and will succeed in life.  Here's a story that demonstrates this--how would you like to be the only girl playing on a high school football team, playing a ranked opponent?  And have your team depending on your to make the winning kick?  One young lady did just that:
"In his 18 years at Pinckney Community High School, Jim Darga, the principal, said, the homecoming queen had always been crowned at halftime of the school’s football game. Never before, though, had she had to be summoned from the team’s locker room.
And that was just the beginning of Brianna Amat’s big night.
If being named homecoming queen is a lifetime memory for a high school student, so, too, is kicking a winning field goal. For Amat, 18, they happened within an hour of each other.
On Friday, with Pinckney leading powerful Michigan rival Grand Blanc, 6-0, at the half, Amat, the first girl to play football for the school’s varsity, was asked to return to the field. When she arrived, she was told that her fellow students had voted her queen. When the tiara was placed on her head, she was wearing not a dress, like the other girls in the homecoming court, but her No. 12 uniform, pads and all.
A short while later, with five minutes to play in the third quarter, Amat was called to the same field to attempt a 31-yard field goal. She split the uprights.
The kick proved decisive as Pinckney held on for a 9-7 victory against a Grand Blanc team that had come into the game ranked seventh in the state in its division. It also earned Amat the nickname the Kicking Queen.
The twin accomplishments were still sinking in Monday, said Amat, a senior who has played soccer since she was 3 but who tried out for the football team only last spring, at her soccer coach’s suggestion.
“It’s just starting to hit me today,” she said in a telephone interview. “The guys were congratulating me, but without them, I wouldn’t even have gotten close” to making the kick.
“It was pretty special,” said Darga, who watched Amat win her crown and the game and called her an “accomplished athlete.”
Before Friday, Darga said, Amat was known primarily as a student with a perfect 4.0 grade average who was involved in student government, serving as treasurer.
Although the high school has had a female player on its junior varsity team, Amat is the first girl to make the main squad in Pinckney, a village of 2,000 17 miles from Ann Arbor. The school, which draws from several rural communities, has 1,440 students.
Amat’s prowess as a defender on the school’s girl’s soccer team led to the invitation to try out as a football kicker. She competed against two male students, including one who wound up as the team’s punter.
“She won the position on her own merit,” Darga said. “She won it outright.”
Amat had no previous football experience before joining the team in summer training. But she spent hours kicking balls in a field to her father, Ronaldo, a window and door salesman, and her brother Brandon, a University of Michigan student.
Amat said her father and mother, Nanci, who works at the high school, approved of her playing.
“They’ve been really supportive of everything I do,” she said.
Amat made her debut during the Pirates’ first game this season, when she was called in to kick an extra point after a touchdown.
“The whole warm-up, I was nervous,” she said.
She said she stayed calm during the kick but that afterward, “my heart was beating in my ears from the adrenaline.”
Amat said she had not needed much adjustment to become Pinckney’s first female varsity football player. She was surprised at how quickly she was made to feel like one of the guys.
“They’ve been so accepting of me, it’s as if I’ve always been their teammate,” she said.
The main drawback has been the separate locker room provided by the school, which keeps her apart from the male players.
“After the games, they’re celebrating in their locker room and I’m by myself in my locker room,” she said.
On Friday night, Amat said she had an extra incentive to make her third-quarter field goal. She had missed an extra-point attempt in the first half, leaving Pinckney ahead by 6-0.
“I put pressure on myself to make it,” Amat said. “I wanted to apologize to the team.”
She added that the miss also distracted from the homecoming ceremony.
“I don’t think I went into homecoming mode,” she said. “I just wanted to get back into the locker room and be with the team.”
At Pinckney, students vote for a homecoming court made up of one male and one female student from the freshman, sophomore and junior classes, and three boys and three girls from the senior class. The king and queen are elected in a schoolwide vote.
In the locker room at halftime, Amat and a male teammate were told they were part of the court, and went out in their gear. (Had she not been playing, Amat said, she would have worn “a nice dress, a long dress, what the other girls had on.”)
She was met by her brother, her kick retriever, who had given up tickets to the Michigan-Minnesota football game the next day so that he could watch her play and, ultimately, to serve as her homecoming escort.
There was no time to relish the victories, said Amat, who went straight home to bed. As student treasurer, she had to rise early Saturday to help with decorations for the homecoming dance. She wore a black and silver dress to the event, which she attended with a group of friends.
Winning kick and coronation behind her, Amat said she was now concentrating on winning acceptance to Western Michigan, where she applied in September.
Amat plans to set sports aside to concentrate on a degree in business advertising. But she said she might reconsider if offered an athletic scholarship.
The attention, from classmates and the news media, has been a surprise to the kicking queen.
“For the longest time, I was the shyest kid ever, and now everybody knows my name,” she said. “It’s a totally different experience.”

"Success never comes to look for you while you wait around.
You've got to get up and work at making your dreams come true."
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