Friday, September 26, 2014

INSPIRATIONAL STORY OF THE DAY: WINDOW WASHERS TRANSFORMED...

...transformed, that is, into super-heroes for ill children.  Read how and why they do it--and be sure to click on the link for the story, as there are some great pics of these men in action:

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Roger Corcoran has been a window washer for 35 years. But on Wednesday, he was Batman.
The 61-year-old grandfather of two rappelled down the side of Mayo Clinic Children’s Center alongside Spiderman and Superman.
“When a kid wanted to know why I was so old, I told him I played the original batman,” Corcoran said with a chuckle.
John Carroll, 48, dressed up as Spiderman.
“It’s one thing I look forward to doing all year,” said Carroll, who has worked as a window washer for 15 years.
After rappelling down the side of the building, Carroll and Corcoran went inside to meet the kids, who were appropriately shocked to come face-to-face with their high-flying heroes.
“The first time it happened, I was kinda crying because it means a lot to those kids,” Carroll said.
Carroll and Corcoran work at ISS Facility Services, which washes windows for Mayo Clinic. Charlie Kleber worked with Mayo Clinic to set up the special event, and said he picked some of his best guys to swing down and make the kids smile.
He said he’s watched even the sickest kids come alive when they’re face-to-face with the superheroes.
He called Wednesday’s superhero experience “life-changing,” and said they were all struck by a special patient: 13-year-old Claire Strawman, who in April became the youngest heart-lung patient Mayo Clinic had ever transplanted.
She told them about how she went into lung failure and underwent a transplant in April. She was hospitalized for about seven months before being released a few weeks ago. But she got sick on Monday and needed to come back.
“I got goose bumps right now telling you that story,” Kleber said.
Claire is on immunosuppressant drugs to prevent her from rejecting the new organs, but the drugs also make her more prone to infections. When she got sick, her parents worried and brought her back to the hospital, according to her mom, Ellen Strawman. She was in the pediatric ICU when the superheroes visited.
“Just seeing them put a big smile on her face,” Strawman said, adding that Claire left the hospital today for her home in Bloomington, Minnesota.
“She told us what happened to her and everything. We were all standing around her tearing up,” Carroll said. “That story made you feel so proud to do it for the kids because it means so much to them. It was great.” 

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Here's a great photo of these guys in action:

PHOTO: Most days, these men are normal guys. But on Wednesday, they were superheroes.

Thursday, September 25, 2014

BRAIN TALK DEPT: THE BRAINS OF MULTI-TASKERS

Multi-taskers may have brains that look a little different than those of the rest of us.  Read more about it:

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Some people don't just work — they text, Snapchat, check Facebook and Tinder, listen to music and work. And a new study reveals those multitaskers have brains that look different than those of people who stick to one task.
Researchers at the University of Sussex scanned 75 adults using an fMRI to examine their gray matter. Those who admitted to multitasking with a variety of electronic devices at once had less dense gray matter in their anterior cingulate cortexes (ACC). This region controls executive function, such as working memory, reasoning, planning and execution.
There is no way of knowing if people with smaller anterior cingulate cortexes are more likely to multitask or if multitaskers are shrinking their gray matter. It could even show that our brains become more efficient from multitasking, said Dr. Gary Small, director of UCLA’s Memory and Aging Research Center at the Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior, who was not involved in the study.
“When you exercise the brain … it becomes effective at performing a mental task,” he said. While previous research has shown that multitasking leads to more mistakes, Small said research remains important to our understanding of something we’re all guilty of doing.

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And do go to the link above--there are links to other interesting articles at the site.

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

DO YOU BRAG ABOUT YOUR CHILD? IF NOT, WHY NOT?

Because every child achieves things and has accomplishments--even if perhaps what they accomplish is a little different.  Read on:

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There were a few regularly-used Yiddish words in my house when I was growing up. Like the word “kvetch” to refer to my great-aunt, later dubbed “Aunt Kvetchie,” who was a known complainer.
Or “you are such a klutz” – as in uncoordinated. I heard this one often. An accurate description of my always bumping into things, not the least bit athletic self. And “what a schmuck he is” – my dad describing someone who was a real jerk.
One Yiddish word I didn’t learn until I became a Mom is “kvelling” – when a person is bursting with pride and pleasure. As in – “His mother was kvelling over his early admission to Harvard.” Kvelling is done by all mothers, Jewish or not, when discussing their children.
In my lawyering years, I ate lunch several days a week around a conference room table with younger female colleagues. There was a lot of kvelling among us. My friend, Lisa, would tell us about her daughter’s star soccer skills. And Michelle would let us know that her son got an A on a tough social studies test. Denise was naturally thrilled when her daughter was elected class president in 6th grade. I shared my kids’ accomplishments as well. And when your kids are young, you have lots of achievements to kvell about. It isn’t boasting or bragging; you are just proud of your child. And okay, I’ll admit, maybe a little back-patting.
When Lisa, Michelle and Denise’s kids were in elementary school, mine were of high school and college age. Kvelling gets a bit trickier as your kids get older. Especially if your kid happens not to be on the do-not-pass-go direct path from high school to early admission into Harvard, then on to elite grad school or Wall Street or a fancy internship.
What happens to kvelling if your kid is on his or her own very different path?
By the time one of my kids was in high school, we were on a first-name basis with mental health struggles. In college, the same mental health challenges grew worse. An elite grad school, Wall Street or a fancy internship did not seem likely. (although hope does spring eternal).
Since I’m not one to sit back and watch life happen, I sought out other parents whose young adult kids were also on different paths to adulthood. I didn’t find one, so I created a support and resources-sharing group in 2008 at my synagogue. Called – wait for it, very clever name coming –”Parents of Young Adults who Struggle,” we have met monthly for the past nearly 6 years to share our stories, to talk about the roller-coaster rides that our kids put us on, to strategize on how to cope as parents and to laugh. Lots of laughing. We even have our own Facebook page.
In our support group we kvell often.
One of us will say how thrilled she was that her son managed to get up on time and get to his doctor’s appointment. Yay, we respond. Or that another remembered to take his meds. Terrific, we cheer. Or that one’s daughter is taking a class at community college and hasn’t dropped out yet. Great news!
And while this different kind of kvelling was going on, I was still having lunch on weekdays with friends whose kids’ accomplishments were of the more typical variety. While my work friends were true pals, I wasn’t always comfortable talking about my kid’s struggles. I was dealing in two parallel universes here – I was certainly happy for my friends and their kids, even if I couldn’t always keep up in the kvelling department.
But when minor (to me) problems were shared – a son got a B- on a test or a daughter didn’t make the soccer travel team – I had some trouble summoning up the required murmurs of sympathy. “You just have no idea what real problems are until you’ve met some of the people in my support group,” I would think.
So the next time you are having lunch with friends and the talk turns, as it often does, to what your kids are doing and the kvelling begins — one of the moms is happy that her daughter aced the SATs, the other’s son just got into law school, a third mom glows about her daughter’s engagement — and you see that one of your friends around the table is sitting silently, fiddling with her drink, just waiting for that part of the conversation to pass? Consider that quiet mom. She loves her son or daughter just as much as you do. Smile at her, and ask how her child is doing. She may need to do a different kind of kvelling.
Nancy L. Wolf, the mother of two young adults, erroneously thought that the difficult years of parenting were behind her. She is a recovering lawyer, who lives in Washington and blogs at Witty Worried and Wolf.

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Monday, September 22, 2014

7 WAYS TO BOOST YOUR HAPPINESS

This once again is brought to us from the I-Just-Thought-This-Was-Interesting Dept:

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Americans will spend about $550 million on self-help books this year and more than $1 billion on motivational speakers. Obviously, many of us are on a quest for happiness.
I get it. We all want, and deserve, that sense of well-being. But save your money. Achieving happiness is easier than you may think.
We all experience emotional highs throughout our lives -- with a job promotion, on our wedding day, with the birth of a child. But these moments only yield temporary feelings of elation, and experts say that they alone are not enough to achieve true happiness.
Happiness isn't just an emotional state. Decades of research proves it goes much deeper. In fact, science shows people who are happy live longer and healthier lives. The good news is that generating better bliss is something we can all do regardless of our environment or genetics.
Here are seven ways to boost your life satisfaction:
Does laughing make you healthier?
Start by changing your attitude.
That's right -- I'm talking to you, pessimists.
A Harvard University study found that optimists are not only happier but are 50% less likely to have heart disease, a heart attack or a stroke. It turns out that keeping a positive outlook actually offers protection against cardiovascular disease.
The science doesn't fare as well for pessimists. They have lower levels of happiness compared with optimists and are three times as likely to develop health problems as they age, researchers say.
Learn from people who are already happy.
Denmark has earned the top spot on the European Commission's "Eurobarameter" for well-being and happiness every year since 1973. And when the United Nations went on the hunt for the happiest nation in the world, it ranked Denmark No. 1.
So what makes Danes more satisfied with their lives? Sure, things like life expectancy, gross domestic product and a low-corruption rate help. But the overall level of happiness in Denmark has more to do with the generosity that's common among citizens, their freedom to make life choices and a strong social support system, according to the U.N. World Happiness Report.
Work less.
The Danes seem to strike a great work-life balance, which ups their happiness level. Simply put: They don't overwork. In fact, the average workweek in Denmark is 33 hours -- only 2% of Danes work more than 40 hours a week.
Almost 80% of mothers in Denmark return to work after having a child, but they balance their free time between families, weekly happy hour with their girlfriends and participating in community club programs.
Focus on experiences.
Danes also pay less attention to gadgets and things and more attention to building memories. Studies show that people who focus on experiences over "things" have higher levels of satisfaction, long after the moment of the experience has passed.
Too much stuff tends often leads to debt, not to mention the time and stress associated with keeping up all those gadgets, cars, properties, clothes, etc.
Researchers say when people focus on experiences, they feel a greater sense of vitality or "being alive" during the experience and afterward. It also brings you mentally closer to the people around you, which may contribute to your happiness boost.
Build up your social network.
By simply being social, you could slow down your biological age. Research shows that a strong social support system can shorten our telomeres.
Telomeres are the tiny caps on our DNA chromosomes that indicate our cellular age. According to experts, no friends can equal shorter telomeres and, in turn, a shorter life.
Other studies have showed that loneliness leads to higher rates of depression, health problems and stress. Solution: Have at least one close friend to boost your happiness level and health.
Volunteer.
People who volunteer are happier with their lives than those who don't, according to dozens of studies. The United Nations even credits volunteerism as one of the reasons Denmark is the happiest nation in the world -- 43% of Danes regularly give back to their community, compared with 25% of Americans.
The joy of helping others starts early. A 2012 study found children prefer to give than to receive. Researchers gave two groups of toddlers snacks and then asked one group to give their treats away. The children who gave away their treats showed greater happiness about sharing their possessions, suggesting that the act of personal sacrifice was emotionally rewarding, researchers say.
The sacrifice doesn't have to be big -- previous research has found that donating or spending as little as $5 on others has emotional benefits.
Experts say we are all inherently compassionate. Performing acts of kindness, volunteering time and donating money increases happiness by improving your sense of community, purpose and self-image.
Just start laughing.
Research shows that laughing doesn't just signal happiness, it produces it. When we laugh, our stress hormones decrease and our endorphins rise. Endorphins are the same brain chemicals associated with the "runner's high" you get from exercise.
Laughing is also good for your heart. A study found that only 8% of heart patients who were made to laugh daily had a second heart attack within a year, compared with 42% of the non-laughers.
Studies show our bodies can't differentiate between fake and real laughter; you'll get the health boost either way. So you can even fake it until you make it. Laugh in your car, in the shower -- force yourself to start laughing a few minutes every day.

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Friday, September 19, 2014

ONCE AGAIN: FRIDAY FOOTBALL PICKS!!

Again, I will wait until some bigger college football games come down the pike before I pick more of them.  Again this week I will focus on NFL picks.  So far on the season I am just 18-16.  Sheesh!

NFL PICKS

San Diego at Buffalo.  My pick:  CHARGERS    20-17.  Buffalo is about a 2 pt favorite.  And I am impressed with a lot of what they are doing.  But San Diego REALLY impressed last week, with what they did against the Seahawks defense.  I look for Philip Rivers' experience to carry them again, in a another tight win.

Dallas at St. Louis.  My pick:  UPSET---  RAMS  17-13.  The problem for the Cowboys, for so long, has been inconsistency.  Look for that to rear it's head this week.  The Rams have a good defense.  They'll load up on the run.  And Tony Romo, who probably is not yet completely healthy, will make mistakes.

Washington at Philadelphia.  My pick:  EAGLES   34-24.  Once again the Eagles may mess around for a half or so, thus making this a closer game than it need be.  But once that Philly offense gets racing--look out.

Houston at NY Giants.  My pick:  GIANTS   17-16.  The Giants just make too many mistakes. They are not yet in sync.  BUT--the Texans are going on the road for a second straight week, and that can be tough.  And Eli Manning is too good to continue to make such mistakes.

Minnesota at New Orleans.  My pick:  SAINTS   34-10.  The Saints finally get off the ground--at home, where they're usually very good.  No Adrian Peterson for the Vikes means big trouble.

Tennessee at Cincinnati.  My pick:  BENGALS     27-13.  The Bengals are tough at home; and the Cincy defense is better than people think.  And watch Andy Dalton's throws at QB--he is sharper and more precise now than ever.

Baltimore at Cleveland.  My pick:  UPSET alert-----BROWNS 30-27.  Because I'm just not certain about the Ravens yet; and now they're on the road.  And--can you believe it?  I'm becoming a believer in Brian Hoyer.

Green Bay at Detroit.  My pick:  PACKERS    28-24.  How often lately have the Lions beaten a Green Bay team when Aaron Rodgers was healthy???  No--I can't remember that game either.

Indianapolis at Jacksonville.  My pick:   COLTS    31-17.  The Colts still have plenty of talent; this week they start the long road back from 0-2 vs the woeful Jaguars.

Oakland at New England.  My pick:  PATRIOTS    38-17.  Oakland appears to have major, major problems; meanwhile the Pats have more chances to get in shape.

San Francisco at Arizona.  My pick:  UPSET alert----CARDINALS   16-13.  I don't think the Niners are yet in good form.  Last week vs the Bears that became obvious.  Meanwhile--that Cardinals defense is tough.

Denver at Seattle.  My pick:  SEAHAWKS  28-17.  Because I don't think the Broncos will have that defense figured out yet; not to mention the advantage Seattle has at home.

Kansas City at Miami.  My pick:  DOLPHINS   23-17.  I think the Chiefs, with all their injuries and problems, are taking a step back.  Miami will benefit.

Pittsburgh at Carolina.  My pick:  PANTHERS  24-10.  That Carolina defense is really good; and look for Cam Newton to show more improvement.

Chicago at NY Jets.  My pick:  JETS   30-27.  You know, I know they lost last week, but I saw real improvement in that Jets offense with Geno Smith.  Look for the Bears to have trouble being on the road for a second straight week.

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

HEALTH UPDATE: THE BENEFITS OF GETTING UP

Studies seem to show:  the less sedentary we are, the longer we will live.  Here's more:

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If people need motivation to get up from their office chairs or couches and become less sedentary, two useful new studies could provide the impetus. One found that sitting less can slow the aging process within cells, and the other helpfully underscores that standing up — even if you are standing still — can be good for you as well.
For most of us nowadays, sitting is our most common waking activity, with many of us sitting for eight hours or more every day. Even people who exercise for an hour or so tend to spend most of the remaining hours of the day in a chair.
The health consequences of this sedentariness are well-documented. Past studies have found that the more hours that people spend sitting, the more likely they are to develop diabetes, heart disease and other conditions, and potentially to die prematurely — even if they exercise regularly.
But most of these studies were associational, meaning that they found a link between sitting and illness, but could not prove whether or how sitting actually causes ill health.
So for the most groundbreaking of the new studies, which was published this month in the British Journal of Sports Medicine, scientists in Sweden decided to mount an actual experiment, in which they would alter the amount of time that people spent exercising and sitting, and track certain physiological results. In particular, with this experiment, the scientists were interested in whether changes in sedentary time would affect people’s telomeres.
If you are unfamiliar with the componentry of your genes, telomeres are the tiny caps on the ends of DNA strands. They shorten and fray as a cell ages, although the process is not strictly chronological. Obesity, illness and other conditions can accelerate the shortening, causing cells to age prematurely, while some evidence suggests that healthy lifestyles may preserve telomere length, delaying cell aging.
For the new experiment, the Swedish scientists recruited a group of sedentary, overweight men and women, all aged 68, and drew blood, in order to measure the length of telomeres in the volunteers’ white blood cells. Then half of the volunteers began an individualized, moderate exercise program, designed to improve their general health. They also were advised to sit less.
The other volunteers were told to continue with their normal lives, although the scientists urged them to try to lose weight and be healthy, without offering any specific methods.
After six months, the volunteers all returned for a second blood draw and to complete questionnaires about their daily activities. These showed that those in the exercise group were, not surprisingly, exercising more than they had been previously. But they were also, for the most part, sitting substantially less than before.
And when the scientists compared telomeres, they found that the telomeres in the volunteers who were sitting the least had lengthened. Their cells seemed to be growing physiologically younger.
Meanwhile, in the control group telomeres generally were shorter than they had been six months before.
But perhaps most interesting, there was little correlation between exercise and telomere length. In fact, the volunteers in the exercise group who had worked out the most during the past six months tended now to have slightly less lengthening and even some shortening, compared to those who had exercised less but stood up more.
Reducing sedentary time had lengthened telomeres, the scientists concluded, while exercising had played little role.
Exactly what the volunteers did in lieu of sitting is impossible to say with precision, said Per Sjögren, a professor of public health at Uppsala University in Sweden, who led the study, because the researchers did not track their volunteers’ movement patterns with monitors. But “it’s most likely,” he said, that “sitting time was predominantly replaced with low-intensity activities,” and in particular with time spent standing up.
Which makes the second new study of sedentary behavior particularly relevant. Standing is not, after all, physically demanding for most people, and some scientists have questioned whether merely standing up — without also moving about and walking — is sufficiently healthy or if standing merely replaces one type of sedentariness with another.
If so, standing could be expected to increase health problems and premature death, as sitting has been shown to do.
To find out whether that situation held true, Peter Katzmarzyk, a professor of public health at the Pennington Biomedical Research Center in Baton Rouge, La., and an expert on sedentary behavior, turned to a large database of self-reported information about physical activity among Canadian adults. He noted the amount of time that the men and women had reported standing on most days over the course of a decade or more and crosschecked that data with death records, to see whether people who stood more died younger.
The results, published in May in Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, are soothing if predictable. Dr. Katzmarzyk found no link between standing and premature death. Rather, as he writes in the study, “mortality rates declined at higher levels of standing,” suggesting that standing is not sedentary or hazardous, a conclusion with which our telomeres would likely concur. 

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Monday, September 15, 2014

FIVE WAYS TO THINK YOURSELF WELL

How can you use your brain and the power of positive thinking to help you feel better???  Here are some ways:

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There wasn't anything that could bring singer Pharrell Williams down in his hit song "Happy." Turns out he was on to something.
Being happy and optimistic can prolong your life, help you manage stress, lower your risk of death from cardiovascular disease and even help protect you from the common cold, according to the Mayo Clinic.
Not bad at all, especially as thinking positively doesn't cost you a thing.
There's no better time to try it out than on Positive Thinking Day, which is celebrated each September 13. Here are five expert tips to help you think yourself well:
Be aware of your automatic reactions
Take a look at the following word: opportunitynowhere.
What do you see? Opportunity now here or opportunity nowhere?
"You want to understand what is your go-to, natural way of operating in the world," said Dr. Joffrey Suprina, national dean for Argosy University's College of Behavioral Sciences.
Are you the kind of person who spills your morning coffee or trips on the way to work, and suddenly the whole day is ruined? Or do you focus more on the positive aspects and the lessons that can be learned? Maybe you needed a break from caffeine or a reminder to not stare at your smartphone while walking.
Once you become aware of your tendencies, you can start changing your behavior, according to Suprina.
Catch and reframe your thoughts
Once you catch yourself defaulting to a negative reaction, try to change your perspective and reframe your thoughts into something more positive, Suprina suggests.
A simple question to ask yourself is, "What might be some positives?"
Although it may seem clunky at first, hang in there. Suprina says that it takes about 90 days to change a habit and that celebrating baby steps and small wins is a great way to reinforce your new behavior.
It's just as important to not beat yourself up for having negative thoughts, he explains.
"Positive thinkers don't only see the positive. They realize that the negative exists but that we can choose where to focus."
Don't believe everything your mind tells you
"It's a little-known fact that we don't always have to believe what our minds are telling us," explained Bobbi Emel, a California-based psychotherapist and coach. "We become fused with our own inner workings to the extent that they inform how we feel and act."
By observing your negative thoughts instead of judging, believing or acting on them, she says, it becomes easier to let them go.
Say to yourself, "I notice that I'm having this thought or feeling," and allow yourself to put distance between you and your reactions.
Let go of fear
"The bottom of all negativity is fear," explained Terri Cole, a licensed therapist and transformation coach in New York. "Most of the time, it is based in the future. What if this does or doesn't happen?"
The solution, she says, is to be in the present moment and identify a fearful thought as soon as you have it.
"Close your eyes; figure out where you feel that fear. Focus on that spot with your mind and breathe, and visualize the stress going away. Replace a fearful thought with a better thought," Cole suggested.
A basic meditation practice that's as short as 10 minutes a day can make a difference.
"What that will buy you is two seconds of response time," she said. "Instead of believing what your fear is telling you, you don't react."
Find your mood changers
Sometimes life can be a little challenging; difficult news or a loss can make it hard to stay positive. In these times, Cole recommends using what she calls mood changers.
A mood changer can be as simple as having a photo of a loved one, happy experience or beautiful place on your phone so that when you see it, you'll experience a more positive emotion.
She also suggests starting each day listing three things you are grateful for and ending the day by sharing or thinking about your favorite moment from that day. Even just taking a few minutes to breathe deeply and say "I am so grateful that I'm here now" can help you improve your positivity.
"Every single person reading this article has the power to change their life -- has the power to be happy, be in love, make money. You really have to take responsibility."

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