Including one that deals with autism. But any books that help any parent with any aspect of parenting is helpful, especially for those of you with children who have special needs. Read on:
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This
installment of our round-up of recent parenting books includes more on
achieving work/life balance, a treatment program for autism and a
collection of essays about being a good mother. These titles were chosen
from books we’ve recently received from publishers and cover a range of
pressing parenting issues.
“Food Allergies: A Recipe for Success at School.”
I don’t remember knowing anyone with a food allergy when I was a
child (a long time ago, admittedly). But these days, you’re hard-pressed
to find a classroom, soccer team or scout group that doesn’t have at
least one child with nut, dairy or egg allergies.
It’s serious stuff. Exposure to the offending food can be
life-threatening for these kids, and it can be scary to send your child
off to school armed with an EpiPen, hoping that she doesn’t have any
dangerous food encounters during the day. Jan Hanson’s book
reviews common food allergies, including possible treatments and the
most recent research. She gives parents a three-step plan for managing
food allergies at school and goes over the laws that protect students
with food allergies. She also suggests strategies for helping your child
if she feels isolated from her peers because of her dietary
restrictions.
“Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All.”
Sharon Meers and Joanna Strober’s 2009 book was reissued last month, with a foreword by “Lean In” author Sheryl Sandberg.
In light of the ongoing debate over how and whether working mothers can have it all, the authors say women can have successful careers and be good moms, but only if their spouses are equal partners in the work at home.
“The
most important career decision you make is whom you marry,” they
write. They quote research that shows that couples who split the home
responsibilities equally have a lower risk of getting divorced. They
also cite a study of 1,250 fathers that indicated children do better
academically when their fathers eat, play and do homework with them. So
women should shed their guilt about wanting both career and family. They
need to lobby for flexibility at work and help from their spouses at
home.
By allowing sources to speak anonymously, the authors were
able to get candid responses from couples and employers about why women
struggle with this, but men don’t. The last third of the book is devoted
to advice on how to get to 50/50 with your spouse.
“The Good Mother Myth.
” Avital Norman Nathman edited this collection of essays about
motherhood. Rather than painting pictures of idyllic mothers, the pieces
debunk the idea that there is one right way to parent a child.
The
authors are refreshingly honest about parenting, from the opening essay
about a mom dropping her daughter when she was a baby to another about
learning how to say no to the volunteer recruiters at your child’s
school. There is an essay about only wanting to have one child and
another about how women compare themselves with other mothers.
The
book also includes the voices of a mother who struggles with mental
illness, a male-to-female transsexual parent, a teen mom and a mother
who smokes marijuana to deal with the stress of raising her child.
The message: There’s no such thing as the perfect mother. And most of us are perfectly good mothers. Thank goodness.
“How to Be the Parent You Always Wanted to Be.”
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish revisit their 1992 guide to
respectful parenting with this new release, a workbook accompanied by an
audio guide.
The authors’ goal is to help parents communicate
effectively with their children, particularly in today’s “time-starved
times.” Chapters about feelings, cooperation, punishment, praise and
anger include comic strips illustrating pertinent situations, followed
by quizzes and exercises that allow readers to practice the approaches
recommended by the authors.
The last part of the book is answers to questions they are frequently asked when they give parenting seminars.
“Spectacular Bond: Reaching the Child With Autism.” Marion
Blank, Suzanne Goh and Susan Deland co-authored this guide to a program
parents can use at home to help children with autism develop language
skills and master appropriate behavior.
“Tremendous results are
attainable for the great majority of children,” the authors say, when
parents focus on improving the parent-child bond.
The method
described in the book is primarily for children ages 2 to 6 but can be
used for children up to 10 years old. It requires parents to change how
they talk to their child, how they go about their daily routines and how
they show affection.
The program has six parts: simplify the
world; build self-control; manage meltdowns; sit quietly; organize daily
life; and move on. They are all building toward “achieving inner calm
and control,” the authors write.
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